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Do I have any Game of Throne fans out there?

In the Game of Thrones, Theon Grayjoy was captured by the evil Lord Ramsay Bolton who mercilessly tortured and abused him, mentally and physically, destroying his morale, messing with his mind, and emasculating him by literally removing the very symbol of male authority and power.

Theon was broken down not just physically but psychologically, reduced to the status of nothing more than a mere dog.

He was given the name “Reek”, and placed into a small cage fitting for a dog or other animal.

Theon’s sister, Yara Greyjoy, a skilled sea faring woman, courageously commanded her sailing ships and troops, the Ironborn, to sail across the treacherous seas and employed a rescue mission to save Theon from his fate.

But when she arrived and found Theon in his cage, something truly shocking happened.

When Yara opened the door to his cage and commanded him to come with her, for he was now safe and saved—Theon refused to leave!

Theon had become so accustomed to his condition, so brainwashed by his captors, that he was too scared to venture out beyond his small cage and back to the world of freedom and safety—a world which had become so foreign to him that he chose to stay in the abuse and the torture rather than face the fear of this promised freedom.

My friends...

Couples reading this....

This is no different than where you may find yourself now.

So often we become accustomed to the pain, to the dysfunction, to the lack of intimacy, lack of communication--- that we unwittingly become comfortable in it.

We build cages around our hearts and around our lives, and though the disconnection and confusion are painful and they hurt, we become brainwashed by our own torture

We begin to feel safe in the midst of it all—so much so that when someone offers us freedom, we refuse.

The mere thought of freedom causes panic and anxiety. And so, we cling to what is familiar and what is known, despite the cost to our spirits, our bank accounts, and our future.

We choose to stay stuck in our fear--just like Theon-so much so that the promise of freedom feels too threatening and too scary.

My plea to you is to stop listening to your fear.

My plea to you is to stop letting the comfort of what has become familiar—the pain, the disconnection, the lack of intimacy, the anxiety, the communication loops that get you nowhere—to become your cage.

I am here to offer you a pathway to your own freedom.

I am here to open the cage you have built around your intimate relationship and show you how to get back into connection and love.

I have the roadmap, I know the terrain.

I have the sailing ship that is only waiting for your arrival and for your courageous YES to step into the unknown, and back to freedom, flow, and authentic connection with your beloved.

I am your Yara Grayjoy.

That’s why I’m inviting you to be a part of the Back on the Same Page program for couples.

In this relationship transforming experience you’ll:

• Escape from communication loops that are keeping you stuck.
• Learn three communication structures that empower you to talk about difficult topics with ease, and without the fear of hurting your partner’s feelings.
• Discover what your relational needs are and how to advocate for them to be met and you’ll how to do the same for your partner.
• Learn how to create clarity in your intimate interactions so that you can navigate differences in desire without giving in out of obligation or feeling rejected.
• The structure of pleasure and the exact steps to take to intentionally create deeper connection and more confidence in the bedroom and out!
• The core skills for resolving differences in libido-- whether you are the “high desire” or “low desire” partner--without anyone feeling like they are broken or need to be fixed.

Here’s the deal: I only have space for up to 10 couples per cohort and applications are only open twice per year. The next cohort begins August 18^th.

Back on the Same Page is for couples who:

• Are in a long-term committed relationship
• Have an overall good relationship but are struggling to communicate about sex, intimacy, or other topics that have caused resentment and pain over the years; you want a way to get out of communication loops and to heal the old wounds so you can feel emotionally and sexually connected again.
• Experience mismatched libido and want to figure out how to resolve this mismatch so that you can have mutually satisfied intimacy for the long term.
• Have wanted to work with me but haven’t been able to invest in private coaching or attend an in-person retreat experience due to cost, schedule conflicts, or in ability to travel.
• Are in a place where you are ready to get some real support and make some big changes in your relationship for the long term.

Back on the Same Page is Not for Couples who:

• Are looking for an easy DIY or free solution.
• Are not willing to make a commitment and create time and space to learn, have fun, and grow together.
• Just want to ‘talk about it in therapy ‘ or want to stay in the analytical side of things rather than take real actions and embody real skills.

HERE’S HOW IT WORKS:

Back on the Same page is a six-month program that meets twice per month via Zoom.

I teach the lessons live and guide you through specific practices—these are proven structures and techniques for mastering communication, enhancing pleasure, and overcoming differences in libido.

The calls happen twice per month, usually on alternating Monday evenings at 7pm EST and Sunday mornings at 11am EST.

Each call lasts 60-90 minutes and will be recorded for replays.

I will also hold monthly drop-in office hours at varying times each month so you can drop in anytime and get personalized support from me during my open office hours.

You’ll also get access to a What’s App group for sharing experience, asking questions, etc.

What's the cost?

The cost for the Back on the Same Page program is six payments of $500 per month (that’s per couple) or as single payment of $2500 (per couple).

For perspective, my private sex therapy custom coaching programs would cost 5x this. And divorce would you cost even more.

This is big time support for a very reasonable investment!

How do I enroll?

I screen all participants prior to accepting them into the program to ensure it is a proper fit and to ensure that each cohort is harmonious.

So, the first step to get into the program is to ​apply here now. ​

Unless of course.....

Do you want to stay like Theon Grayjoy? Stuck in your cage. Offered a promise of freedom but too afraid to leave your cage?

For some couples that will be the choice.

And if so, no judgment.

Just make sure you know that you ae choosing that cage, and you can no longer pretend you’re a victim of it.

But if you’re tired of feeling the disconnect and simply not willing to stay stuck in the same old habits, if you want to return to fun, flow, connection and love, and true freedom, then allow me to be your Yara Grayjoy.

Allow me to show you there is a path to your own freedom if you will only take my hand and join me for Back on the Same Page.

This is my calling. This is my gift.

Are you ready to receive it?

​Click here to apply now. We start in August.

Susan

Susan Morgan Taylor, MA,

Somatic Sex Therapist for Couples

Founder, The Pathway to Pleasure Collective,

Creator of The Pleasure Keys Process tm and Retreats,

Podcast Host at Sex Talk Cafe.

Susan Morgan Taylor, MA is a somatic sex therapist for couples and the creator of The Pleasure Keys Process and Pleasure Keys Retreats. Susan empowers couples worldwide to get back on the same page in sex and intimacy so that they can deepen connection and create mutually satisfying intimacy for the long term.

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P.S. Back on the Same Page is my signature program and proven roadmap for helping couples communicate better and resolve mismatched libido so they can return to more flow, ease, and mutual fulfillment. Next cohort starts in August. Learn more and apply here. ​