I’ve been couples sex therapist for over a decade. And what I see time and time again is that both partners ultimately want the same thing—a deeper connection. Often one partner seeks this connection through sex while the other needs more emotional connection before the interest in sex is going to be there. But the thing is that we need BOTH types of connection in a relationship to make it feel mutually fulfilling. And this is where I see most couples get stuck. There is a sort of refusal to give in to one side or the other—she refuses to have sex until she feels the emotional connection, he withholds the emotional connection because he’s not getting sex. This is not an effective strategy for making an intimate relationship work! And it only leads to more disconnection and frustration, giving out of guilt or obligation, or tolerating experiences that don’t feel great just to keep the other person happy. The truth is that there is another way. And there are 5 key principles that must be in place in order to get on the same page and create mutually fulfilling intimacy for the LONG term Because I’m not talking about buying new toys or trying some new position. That stuff is just a temporary band aid and doesn't address the root of the issue if it works at all. I’m talking about practical, actionable steps and real tangible skills you can learn and apply to make massive shifts in your intimate life. The Connection Code Masterclass is a PRIVATE event where I’ll be sharing these 5 keys with you so that you can deepen the connection FOR REAL and get back on the same page in intimacy FOR GOOD. In just TWO DAYS, we’ll meet LIVE via Zoom. The Connection Code Masterclass is happening Wednesday, January 22nd at 12pm EST/ 11am CST/ 9am PST. You must register to attend this PRIVATE event (participant cameras will be OFF the whole time) >>>>>>Register here now>>>>>. Here’s an overview of just a few of the things you'll learn: • The 3 causes of mismatched sex drive and how to fix it. • The #1 question you must know the answer to for more confidence, connection and mutual fulfillment. • Why when you FAIL to do THIS ONE THING it leads to disconnection, frustration and confusion. • The reason why “communicating more” is NOT the solution and what you should be doing instead. • Why the mainstream sex and intimacy “gurus” have it all wrong and what you should be paying attention to instead. I’ll be teaching this class LIVE (no, it’s not just some pre-recorded webinar!) and there WON”T be a replay so be sure to register now here to attend the event live on Wednesday Jan 22nd at 12pm CST. Once you register you’ll need to check your email to confirm your registration and once you confirm, the private Zoom access link will be emailed to you. Any questions feel free to hit reply to this email! XO Susan Susan Morgan Taylor, MA Somatic Sex Therapist for Couples Creator of The Pleasure Keys Immersions and Couples Retreats Susan Morgan Taylor, MA is a somatic sex therapist for couples who has empowered hundreds of couples worldwide to get back on the same page in sex and intimacy wo that they can deepen connection and create mutually satisfying intimacy for the long term. She is the creator of the Pleasure Keys Immersion Experiences and Couples Retreats and works with clients worldwide. P.S. Have you heard about the Pleasure Keys Immersion Experiences and Retreats for Couples where I teach committed couples how to get back on the same page in intimacy so that they can experience more fun and flow and overcome mismatched libidos for good? We are now enrolling for our 2025 immersions and spaces are filling fast. Learn more about our April Pleasure Keys Couples Immersion retreat here. |
Susan Morgan Taylor, MA is a somatic sex therapist and relationship coach with over a decade of experience empowering couples to restore intimacy and deepen connection so that they can feel comfortable in their own skin, get out of their head, feel confident both in the bedroom and out, and preserve their intimate relationship without resentment, frustration, obligation, or guilt. Susan is the creator of The Pleasure Keys Immersion Expereinces for Couples and works with clients worldwide.
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