SOMETHING MAGICAL HAPPENS when we leave our regular routine and enter into a different world surrounded by new sights, smells and sounds of an entirely different culture. Traveling to Mexico this week has reminded me how important it is to pull away from the familiar and to allow myself to be challenged by new experiences. This is one of the reasons I love hosting couples retreats. In over a decade of serving couples as a sex therapist I've discovered that the immersive retreat format is the...
2 months ago • 1 min read
Reader, Do you feel like you’ve lost your libido? Are you desiring something more, but unsure of what that “more” even feels like? Despite what you may have learned growing up and from the messaging in your outer world, your sexuality is an extremely powerful, and potent part of who you are. Disconnection from this part of yourself can leave you feeling disempowered, sexually unsatisfied, and turned-off in life. You may be feeling like a vibrant part of you is missing, or perhaps as though...
2 months ago • 2 min read
HI NAME! Just wanted to drop you a quick note to let you know that the price on our upcoming Pleasure Keys Couples Retreat increases this Friday January 31st. This is your final chance to get the retreat at the best price! The retreat is happening Monday March 31st (Arrival is anytime after 4pm) through Friday April 4th (departure by 10am). All retreat details and application links are here. We are gathering in the stunning Smoky Mountains of Gatlinburg, TN in a private luxury cabin nestled...
3 months ago • 1 min read
There's still time to join me for The Connection Code Masterclass, happening TODAY at 12pm EST/ 11am CST/ 9am PST There is NO COST to attend this PRIVATE event but you must REGISTER NOW if you want to get in on the action as we go LIVE in just ONE hour. Here’s what you'll learn: The 3 causes of mismatched libido and how to fix it. The #1 question you must know the answer to for more confidence, connection and mutual fulfillment. Why when you FAIL to do THIS ONE THING it leads to...
3 months ago • 1 min read
Today is the day! The Connection Code Masterclass is happening TODAY at 12pm EST/ 11am CST/ 9am PST AND....... there's still time to join me for this special PRIVATE event! There is NO COST to attend. Here’s what you'll learn: The 3 causes of mismatched libido and how to fix it. The #1 question you must know the answer to for more confidence, connection and mutual fulfillment. Why when you FAIL to do THIS ONE THING it leads to disconnection, frustration and confusion. The reason why...
3 months ago • 1 min read
Just in case you missed it, I'll be hosting a free PRIVATE masterclass tomorrow on the 5 Keys to help you get back on the same page in sex and intimacy so you can deepen connection and create mutually satisfying intimacy for the long term Here’s what we’ll cover: The 3 causes of mismatched libido and how to fix it. The #1 question you must know the answer to for more confidence, connection and mutual fulfillment. Why when you FAIL to do THIS ONE THING it leads to disconnection, frustration...
3 months ago • 1 min read
I’ve been couples sex therapist for over a decade. And what I see time and time again is that both partners ultimately want the same thing—a deeper connection. Often one partner seeks this connection through sex while the other needs more emotional connection before the interest in sex is going to be there. But the thing is that we need BOTH types of connection in a relationship to make it feel mutually fulfilling. And this is where I see most couples get stuck. There is a sort of refusal to...
3 months ago • 2 min read
Hey there! Just in case you missed it, I'll be hosting a free PRIVATE masterclass next week and you're invited! Here's what's on the menu... The Connection Code Masterclass is happening Wednesday January 22nd at 12pm EST/11am CST/ 9am PST During this private class I’ll be teaching you my 5 keys to get back on the same page in sex and intimacy so that you can deepen connection and ditch the mismatched libido’s for good. Here’s what we’ll cover: The 3 causes of mismatched libido and how to fix...
3 months ago • 1 min read
I remember a relationship I was in many years ago with a partner who wanted to explore aspects of his sexuality that were totally foreign to me. And even though I was very willing to learn, to grow, and to do my best to experiment and try new things, I found myself feeling intimidated by not knowing how to provide him with what he wanted. I felt pressured to be something I wasn’t. I felt obligated to play a role I was not comfortable in, that didn’t come naturally to me. And I felt...
3 months ago • 3 min read